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I'm not from here and before October of 2011 I wasn't affiliated with any specific religion. Since October of 2011 I have adopted a Catholic faith but I must note that I spent 90% of my life not catholic. Okay, that being said, there was recently a protest by many religious groups/officials on the island because the government wishes to extend the protection of the Ley 54 to cover couples of the same sex. As it stands now, the law only covers heterosexual couples. 
    The passing of this change would mean that gay and lesbian couples would have the same recourse and protection from spousal abusive as a "normal" straight couple would.  It also means that gay and lesbian couples would be classified as a family unit, under this law and gives them equal treatment for abuse cases. 
    Many religious officials such as Wanda Rolon, believe that the government should not recognize them as a couple or family because it goes against God's Law. They have sited over and over again scripture, they believe, as evidence that the bible, i.e. God, views homosexuality as a grave sin. The acceptance of homosexual couples into the current law would lead to the breakdown of the sanctity of marriage and the biblical definiti. 
    Advocates, such as Francisco el Jimagua, believe Gay and Lesbian couples believe that there should be a separation of church and state and that the should have the same rights as every other human being in Puerto Rico to be protected from spousal/couple abuse.

Okay, so here's my opinion. I think every human being has the right to the same protection. Doesn't matter if they are black, white, Hispanic, tall, short, fat, thin, gay or straight. We all, well most of us, pay taxes, and therefore we all contribute to the government. Why should some people's voices and opinions be more important than others? And, since Puerto Rico is currently under the rule of the U.S., shouldn't P.R. have to follow the rules of the U.S. government? I'm pretty sure there is a separation of church and state, and that part of the formation of the U.S. was to escape religious persecution. Why do we, as an island and people, have to be so backwards. How can we ever hope to progress if we keep the same beliefs regardless of the change in society.
I honestly don't think they will pass the change to the law because Puerto Rico is very traditional and religious. It will eventually pass, but I don't know if I'm still going to be alive to see it.

I believe that there can be a solution to this problem. Since the government and it's people don't wish to protect and accept homosexuals, I think homosexuals shouldn't have to pay taxes or follow the law.

What do you think?

 
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As you can probably tell from the pic on the left, I HATE VALENTINES DAY. Even when I had a boyfriend/friend whatever, on that day, I still hated it with a passion. I can't recall a really bad Valentines Day, but I also can't recall a very happy one.

The only happy memory I have on a Feb 14 would have to be 1999. I was living in New York. The ground was covered with snow and I didn't have school that day. I had a boyfriend at the time that lived about 5 minutes away from me, my first serious boyfriend. On that day I wasn't able to leave my house because of the snow and I had, what later became, the flu. My boyfriend could drive over to me since his car was a piece of crap, so he walked from his house to mine in the snow to make me feel better and spend Valentines day with me. I told him not to because I was sick but he never listened to me. He arrived at my house about an hour later, covered in snow, and holding a brown bag in one had and half dead snow covered roses in the other. The flowers were beyond saving but inside the bag was a large plastic container full of my favorite soup from my favorite restaurant near his house. That soup was the best gift ever, oh and him being there with me was okay too.

As for my worst Valentines Day I would have to say that it was this one. I don't know what happened or how it happened but I obtained a stalker just before ValentinesDay. I met him the wednesday before and gave him my number. He was so cute and sweet, how could I say no? Then the phone calls started, then the texting. Within 24 hours he had called me 9 times in total and sent me 12 text messages. That weekend he called me 52 times and sent me 68 text messages. I knew I had an obsessive personality but I seem normal compared to him. Right before Valentines Day he starts discussing marriage and that's when I knew he had to be stopped. On Valentines Day, I went to my friends house in order to hide from hid, he had followed me home the day before because he wanted to "surprise me" with a delivery of roses to my house. I spent most of the day and night at my friends house, missing a class and missing the company of my puppies. He's my new nightmare.

I have always been a sucker for romantic lovey dovey songs. There are whoever two songs I can't stand, mostly because they're been played to death.
The first is I Will Always Love You, performed by Whitney Houston. OMG that song played nonstop when the Bodyguard came out. My ears almost started bleeding they played it sooo often. Just incase you were living under a rock during the 90's here's a link to the video and the lyrics.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=14ivtcelIo0

If I should stay,
I would only be in your way.
So I'll go, but I know

I'll think of you ev'ry step of the way.

And I will always love you.

I will always love you.
You, my darling you. Hmm.

Bittersweet
memories
that is all I'm taking with me.
So, goodbye. Please, don't cry.

We both know I'm not what you, you need.

And I will always love you.

I will always love you.

(Instrumental solo)

I hope life
treats you kind
And I hope you have all you've dreamed of.
And I wish to
you, joy and happiness.
But above all this, I wish you love.

And I
will always love you.
I will always love you.
I will always love you.

I will always love you.
I will always love you.
I, I will always
love you.

You, darling, I love you.
Ooh, I'll always, I'll always
love you.


Another song I hate, and the Professor hates as well is My Heart Will Go On. I hate it for the same reasons I hate the first and I've never been a Celine Dion fan. Here's a link to the music video and the lyrics below.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saalGKY7ifU

Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you
That is how I
know you go  on.
Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have
come to show  you go on

Near...
Far...
Wherever you are
I
believe that the  heart does go on
Once more...
You open the door
And
you're here in my  heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch
us one time
And  last for a lifetime
And never let go till we're
gone
Love was when I loved  you
( From: http://www.elyrics.net
)

One true time I hold  to
In my life we'll always go
on

Near...
Far...
Wherever you  are
I believe that
The heart
does go on
Once more...
You open the  door
And you're here in my
heart
And my heart will go on and  on

You're here
There's nothing I
fear
And I know that
My heart  will go on
We'll stay
Forever this
way
You are safe in my heart
And  my heart will go on and on
 

Like I said before, there are many love songs I adore. One of them was from my youth. It's so upbeat and perky I couldn't help but like it. Here is a link to The Cardigans, Lovefool.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I9zpnLBtwwg

"Lovefool"


Dear, I
fear we're facing a problem
You love me no longer, I know
And maybe there
is nothing
That I can do to make you do
Mama tells me I shouldn't
bother
That I ought to stick to another man
A man that surely deserves
me
But I think you do!

So I cry, I pray and I beg

Love me love
me
Say that you love me
Fool me fool me
Go on and fool me
Love me
love me
Pretend that you love me
Leave me leave me
Just say that you
need me
Love me love me
Say that you love me
Leave me leave me
Just
say that you need me
I can't care 'bout anything but you...

Lately I
have desperately pondered,
Spent my nights awake and I wonder
What I could
have done in another way
To make you stay
Reason will not lead to
solution
I will end up lost in confusion
I don't care if you really
care
As long as you don't go

So I cry, I pray, and I beg

Love
me, love me
Say that you love me
Fool me, fool me
Go on and fool
me
Love me, love me
Pretend that you love me
Leave me, leave me
Just
say that you need me
So I cry, and I pray for you to
Love me, love
me
Say that you love me
Leave me, leave me
Just say that you need
me
I can't care 'bout anything but you...

Anything but
you...

Love me, love me (Say that you love me)
Fool me, fool me (Go on
and fool me)
Love me, love me (I know that you need me)
I can't care 'bout
anything but you..


I also love Des'ree's version of Kissing You. The first time I heard this song was when I was watching Romeo and Juliet and I still love it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNioG5anmBE

Pride can stand a thousand trials
The strong will never fall
But
watching stars without you
My soul cries

Heaving heart is full of
pain
Oooh, oooh, the aching
'Cause I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing
you, oooh

Touch me deep, pure and true
Give to me forever
'Cause
I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing you, oooh

Where are you now

Where are you now
'Cause I'm kissing you
I'm kissing you, oooh


And there is one more song I can't eliminate from my favorites list. It's totally an obsessive love kind of song but I guess I'm a bit obsessive at times too. Here is a link to I Will Love You by Fisher.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imzkwkgUF4E

Till my body is dust
Till my soul is no more
I will love you
Love
  you


Till the sun starts to cry
And the moon turns to rust
I will love
  you
Love you


But I need to know
Will you stay for all time
Forever and a day?


And I'll give my heart
Till the end of our time
Forever and a day


And I need to know
Will you stay for all time
Forever and a day?


And I'll give my heart
Till the end of our time
Forever and a day

Till the stars fill my eyes
And we touch the last time
I will love
  you
Love you
I will love you
Love you
I will love you
Love you



 
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Well this is where it gets a little more difficult for me to select just two songs as my favorite anti-valentines day songs. For the first song I have to pick an oldie but a goodie, I Will Survive, performed by Gloria Gaynor. The title alone should be reason enough to love this song and select it for favorite Anti-Valentines day song, but when you read the lyrics, its a clear choice. Here is a link to the original music video and also a link to a funny version featuring a cute alien woman.

At first I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
Without you by my side
But then I spent so many nights
Thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along
And so you're back
From outer space
I just walked in to find you here
With that sad look upon your face
I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
You'd be back to bother me

Go on now go walk out the door
Just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
Oh as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
And I'll survive
I will survive (hey-hey)

It took all the strength I had
Not to fall apart
Kept trying hard to mend
The pieces of my broken heart
And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
And you see me
Somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person
Still in love with you
And so you felt like dropping in
And just expect me to be free
And now I'm saving all my loving
For someone who's loving me

Go on now go walk out the door
Just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
Oh as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
And I'll survive
I will survive


My next pick was playing and popular just as a past relationship of mine was ending.
Beyonce is not my favorite singer but this song was just perfect to describe the situation I was going through at the time. Here is a link to Beyonce's Irreplaceable.

To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left

Everything you own in the box to the left
In the closet that's my stuff, yes
If I bought it please don't touch

And keep talking that mess, that's fine
But could you walk and talk at the same time?
And it's my name that's on that Jag
So go move your bags
Let me call you a cab

Standing in the front yard telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking about
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me to say:

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinking you're irreplaceable

So go ahead and get gone
And call up that chick and see if she's home
Oops, I bet ya thought that I didn't know
What did you think I was putting you out for?

Because you was untrue
Rolling her around in the car that I bought you
Baby drop them keys
Hurry up before your taxi leaves

Standing in the front yard telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking about
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me to say:

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I'll have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinking
you're irreplaceable

So since I'm not your everything
How about I'll be nothing, nothing at all to you
Baby I won't shed a tear for you, I won't lose a wink of sleep
'Cause the truth of the matter is replacing you is so easy

To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
Everything you own in the box to the left
To the left, to the left
Don't you ever for a second get to thinking you're irreplaceable

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinking, baby

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute

You could pack all you things, we're finished
(You must not know 'bout me)
'Cause you made your bed, now lay in it
(You must not know 'bout me)
I can have another you by tomorrow
Don't you ever for a second get to thinking
you're irreplaceable

 


My main area of interest is Education. Using the buzzle site, I found three questions/statements that would be great for researching in my field.

How important is technology in education?
The importance of extracurricular activities in school.
The challenges faced by the education system.

Although I am not currently looking to research these topics, I do have an opinion on each, not based on research, just my previous knowledge and gut.

How important is technology in education?

I believe that nowadays technology is important for various reason. The first that comes to mind from the teachers point of view is convenience. Technology has created so many new and wonderful resources for teachers to conduct classes, differentiate instruction and evaluation, and also grab the students attention in a way that they actually learn and retain something. From the viewpoint of the students, technology makes school a bit more fun, helps them research for assignments, prepare assignments and aids in presenting their knowledge in a way that they are more comfortable doing, such as a video, CAD, or via a game. Not all students or teachers are the same and with all the different technology, we are able to brigde the education gap a little bit more.

The importance of extracurricular activities in school.

When I was growing up, activities after school were the best part of the day. With the new educational paradigm, teaching students to work in groups, socialize, and work towards a common goal, teaches students skills that will help them in the classroom and real life. The other advantage of many after school activities is the academic requirement they often have. When I was in high school you had to maintain good attendance and a GPA of 3.0 and above to stay in certain activities. This was true of sports and theater, which I was involved in during my high school years. Regular school is dull and tiring, but knowing that at the end of the day you'll be with your friends, during something fun and physical, gets many students through the day. Physical activity is also very important and there are lots of after school activities that require movement, not just scholastic programs, that encourage health and exercise in kids. Kids nowadays are getting bigger by the minute and a lot of the things they do in their homes are not physically strenuous. This has become a generation that will not live as long as their parents and that is truly sad.

The challenges faced by the educational system.

Well where do I start? Since this is based on my opinion as a future teacher and former/present student, I will only mention a few. One problem that I think is quite obvious is the lack of proper funding. I believe the money is there or can be found, it's just being used in an unefficient manner. Teachers struggle to find new things to show the students, new ways of doing it, but they're hands are tied because of budget cuts. However the prinicipals go on conferences, and the school board and lawyers are very well fed, and their kids most likely go to private schools. Students don't have the basic materials needed to succeed and the teachers see it every day. That is why so very often you see teachers spending their own money for their class. Also the school boards and prinicipals tend to stick to a certain way of teaching and sometimes don't allow the teachers to do things differently. I understand there must be some form of standarization but not all students or classes are the same and sometimes just changing things up works wonders.
Another problem today is the under/over involvement of parents. The kids that are struggling often don't have a good support system at home. The kids that are troublemakers often have the parent that is blind to it and thinks the teacher is not doing their job. They say it takes a village to raise a child, that also should read it takes a village to teach a child. The teacher and school can not be expected to do all the work of every adult in the child's life. We are not dog trainers that should be expected to hand you a perfectly polite and obedient dog at the end of each quarter/semester/year.

 
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Well, to be honest, I like researching, as long as it's not for an assignment. I often find myself researching things I hear or see on tv or in a paper just because it sparks my interest. I tend to have a borderline obsessive type of personality. When I like something, I try to immerse myself in it as much as possible. When I start researching something, I like to find the history behind it and how it's relevant to today's society. I've alway loved history. I believe in order to understand what's going on today you have to look at the past. It's also a wonderful glimpse into how people lived before, their problems, how they resolved them and how they coped without modern ammenities.

If I were asked to pick a research topic I would probably research about the affect of increased class time in English in elementary students to the fluency and literacy in high school. I would choose this topic because I'm studying to be an English teacher and I've noticed that many students, mostly in public schools, can barely form a sentence correctly in English after taking English in school from K-12.

There really aren't many topics I wouldn't enjoy but if I had to choose it would be politics. I hate it. I think politics is just full of lying and manipulation and if I wanted that I would just stay home with my mom, the queen of guilt trips and manipulation.

 
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If I had a choice in another career I think I would have become an actor or singer. Maybe combine the two and do musicals on Broadway? Yeah, Broadway. I grew up in New York so Broadway was never really that far away physically from me. The only problem with that dream is that I'm not as young as I once was and I can't really dance all that well. That being said, I LOVE TO SING. I've been singing from a very young age, although I never took lessons (my family was poor). If I had the training and the money to take voice and dance lessons I don't think anything would have stopped me from becoming, or atleast attempting, a great broadway actor.

There is a job I would never, ever consider ever in my life. I can not and will not ever be a long distance driver. I hate to drive, unless it's at 200mph around an enclosed track or open space. I can't stand sitting in a car for hours and hours. It's so mindless that I would just start to daydream and probably end up driving of the road and off a cliff. I just can't do it.

According to an online career test, my personality is INTP. That does not go with being an actor but hey, we all can dream. Although this personality type is quite rare, abount 3% of the population and mostly found in males, I'm in good company. Some famous INTP's include Albert Einstein, Thomas Jefferson, Rene Descartes,
Charles Darwin, Marie Curie, C.G. Jung, Socrates, and Abraham Lincoln. I might not get the chance to perform on stage but I might find the cure for cancer or free some slaves.

Speaking of performing on Broadway, here are a few prominent Braodway performers, you've probably seen them at one point or another on the show GLEE. There aren't many listings in the classifieds for acting jobs but if you're in the States check out Backstage.com. They have the most upto date listing for acting, singing and dancing jobs.


 
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Although there were several beautiful and delicious looking pictures to choose from, I immediately gravitated towards this picture. Although I currently live in urban Guaynabo and have lived most of my life in an urban or suburban setting, my dream it to have a little house in the country or mountains of Puerto Rico. I've never been one to take it slow in my day to day life, but I find the constant hurry draining, both physically, emotionally and spiritually.
My grandmother grew up in the country, Collores to be exact. It's a small area north of Juana Diaz, in the mountains. She used to tell me about how life was so simple and peaceful up there. She and her 4 sisters would walk around at any time of day or night without fear. She knew everyone in that area and they knew her, it was like Cheers.
My life growing up was a stark contrast to my grandmother. I was an only child, taken away from my family to New York. Although I love my parents very much, I did miss having brothers, sisters, or even cousins to play with. New York is also not know for being the safest place in the world and I happen to have the most fearful, overprotective mother. Seeing this picture reminds me of a dream I had shortly after passing out next to a textbook.


Let me set the scene. It's early morning, around 6. The sun is starting to peek out from behind the  mountains. I can hear my dogs barking at chickens and the rooster. I think to myself, "Why do I bother with the rooster when my dogs are better alarm clocks?" I start to stretch and finally get out of bed. My husband's side is empty and cold. I think to myself, "How did I marry a man that's such an early bird when I'm such a night owl?" Oh well, have to get up anyway. I start walking towards the bathroom and stop a moment to look at myself carefully in the mirror. I start to count the wrinkles, making sure I haven't acquired any new ones from the night before. After my morning routine, I take my cup of coffee and walk out to the back of the house.

In the distance I see a man with broad shoulders, good height and dark curly hair. He is surrounded by dogs, a pig, the useless rooster and several chickens. He turns and sees me. The sun is right in my eyes and I can't see his face, but his voice is sooo sexy as he says to me, "Good morning beautiful." I smile, a coy kind of a smile and take another sip of my coffee. I walk towards a small bistro table and the man starts yelling at the animals to eat up. I watch him carefully as he feeds all the animals, his shoulder blades peeking out from under his wifebeater. I always hated that term, wifebeater.

I look out onto the countryside I take in the beauty of the mountains and nature. I can't believe how fortunate I am to live in such a paradise. Suddenly two of the dogs are running towards me, full force. I know what is about to happen but I'm paralyzed to stop it. As I put my hands up to tell them "NO!", they crash into me and the table, knocking everything onto the ground. My husband runs over frantically and asks if I'm okay. Just as I'm about to see his face, my dog Bandit wakes me up.

Honestly, he always ruins the best dreams.

Seeing that picture reminded me of how much I want to live in a more rural area of Puerto Rico. I'd like to research where the best areas are for country living, any pieces of land available, and maybe how to set up and run a small farm. With the economic crisis and everyone trying to be more "green," it might be nice to have a semiself sustaining farm, with solar power. According to the movies and tv shows, we're not that far away from a zombie apocalypse and I'd rather be prepared for whatever may come.

 
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Growing up I was only exposed to 'Latin" music. In my parents desperate attempt for me to have some sense of my culture, I was restricted to the artists they liked such as Danny Rivera, Paloma San Basilio, Daniella Romo etc. When I started in middle school I started to have a little more freedom in what I could listen to, most likely my parents just gave up. That's when I discovered the wonderful world of R&B. My parents were not convinced since it was "black people" music but they just got used to it. Here are a few links to my favorites, oldies but goodies.

What can I say about Etta James? Her voice makes me melt each time I hear it. Her song "At Last" will be featured at my wedding. Here is a link to the legend herself singing "Ät Last." Unfortunately last year the world lost this beautiful artist to cancer, the BBC wrote this article about her recently.

This next singer makes me wish I was his daughter. The legendary Nat "King" Cole serenades like no other. Here is a link to "Unforgettable" performed by him and his daughter, Natalie Cole. More information about this artist can be found on his website.

Marvin Gaye performed songs that made people immediately want to repopulate the world. One of his most famous songs, "Let's Get It On," has been played for decades and I'm sure is still in the collections of many.

I rarely sing at the top of my lungs but when Aretha Franklin states spelling out RESPECT, I find myself with a sore throat for the rest of the day. Aretha is a legend and anyone that doesn't know who she is needs to come out from under their rock. A list of her performance dates can be found on her official website here.

Old school R&B is great but I have to admit when I'm driving by myself from Ponce to San Juan, I find myself playing the same CD, Boyz II Men. They were very popular when I was in upper elementary and middle school. "Motown Philly" was the first song of theirs I fell in love with. Although the group lost one member many years ago, the remaining members still perform and tour.





 
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I have dreamt about being a super hero since I was a child and I still do, that hasn't changed much. What has changed is the power I would want to have. As a child I wanted to fly and have super speed. As an adult however my priorities have changed.

I want the ability to heal and regrow anything, like Claire from the TV show Heroes. Imagine never getting sick, breaking bones and they just heal quickly and best of all, not aging. I contemplated the whole never dying thing but I'm sure there are ways around that like in the show.
Since I was young I loved to climb trees, climb up cabinets and go on rollercoasters. I love anything extreme, and possibly lethal. With this ability I would be able to do all the crazy things I want to do without the worry of injury or survival. On a less selfish note, I would be able to donate blood and organs over and over again without problems, they just grow back. All around I think this power would be awesome and useful. 


Trivia time!
One of these statements is not true. Can you guess which?

1. I've worked as a production manager for a tv show here in Puerto Rico.
2. My backyard growing up was a maximum security prison.
3. When I was a child I used an occupied coffin as a sled.
4. When I entered college I wanted to be a geneticist.
5. I memorized all my families SSN, birthdates and telephone numbers.
6. I was born on the way to the hospital because my mother didn't want to leave without my father by her side.